Issues Within the Family

My family has tried to be supportive of everything and since we got married haven't said anything bad about Lucas, to my face

Last night my mom and sister came into town with their friends (as close as family) and my husband had to take a call about liquidating part of his 401K for some expenses. He felt the call should be private (they called him back close to the end of the business day) so he was a bit rude when we all asked him who was on the phone, and he disappeared for a bit to talk. (Hes also embarrassed that we have to do this)

My sister then decided to tell me she thinks my husband is cheating on me because she sees the "signs" Yes, she was cheated on... when she was 15-18 by boys that age.

My husband doesn't have TIME to cheat. He sleeps from 9:30-5:40 everyday, leaves for work at 6:30 and returns home between 9 and 10 everyday, exhausted. We have wonderful alone time when hes home

We arent that affectionate in front of other people, and Lucas' personality can be offputtting and he is a self described a**hole. (and he is a jerk sometimes to me, which I then put him in his place, Momma don't put up w/ that crap) He has NEVER laid a hand on me in anger, we both yell. I know we don't argue the "right" way, but we love eachother and always work out our problems in a day or 2.

I am just hurt that my sister has taken that position, her husband is an a** too but I have never said that to her.

::sigh:::

Nicky B